A bridal shower and a bachelorette party are both pre-wedding celebrations, but they have distinct purposes and differences in terms of their focus, activities, and guest lists.

We have you covered with our complete in-depth planning guides for both bridal showers and bachelorettes.

Here’s a breakdown of the key differences between the two:

Bridal shower vs bachelorette

Bridal Shower:

• Purpose: The primary purpose of a bridal shower is to “shower” the bride with gifts, well wishes, and advice for her upcoming marriage.
• Guests: The guest list for a bridal shower typically includes close female friends, family members, and sometimes female relatives of the groom. It is a more inclusive event that may involve women of different age groups and generations.
• Activities: Bridal showers often include activities and games that center around the bride. These activities can be interactive, trivia-based, or advice-sharing sessions. There is a focus on celebrating the bride and providing her with support and guidance.
• Tone: Bridal showers tend to have a more relaxed and intimate atmosphere. They are often held during the day and can include a sit-down meal, afternoon tea, or brunch. The focus is on conversation, connection, and honoring the bride.

Bachelorette Party:

• Purpose: The purpose of a bachelorette party is to celebrate the bride-to-be’s last days of being single and to have a fun and memorable night or weekend with her closest friends.
• Guests: Bachelorette parties typically include the bride’s closest friends, usually the bridal party and other close female friends. It is more of a close-knit gathering, and the guest list is usually limited to a specific group of friends.
• Activities: Bachelorette parties often involve a night out on the town, weekend getaways, or special activities such as spa days, karaoke, or dance classes. The focus is on enjoying memorable experiences together and having fun.
• Tone: Bachelorette parties tend to have a more lively and party-oriented atmosphere. They often take place in the evening or night and can involve going to bars, and clubs, or engaging in activities that cater to the bride’s interests and preferences.

While there can be some overlap in terms of guests and activities, the main distinction lies in the purpose and overall tone of the events. Bridal showers focus on gift-giving, support, and advice for the bride, while bachelorette parties are centered around celebrating the bride’s upcoming marriage with a fun and memorable night or weekend with close friends.

Which one is right for you, bridal shower or bachelorette?

Deciding between a bridal shower and a bachelorette party ultimately depends on your personal preferences, the type of celebration you envision, and the dynamics of your relationships with friends and family. Here are some factors to consider when making a decision:

1. Purpose: Think about what you value most in a pre-wedding celebration. If you appreciate the idea of receiving gifts, well wishes, and advice from a wider circle of female friends and family members, a bridal shower may be a good fit. On the other hand, if you prioritize having a fun-filled night or weekend with your closest friends and creating lasting memories, a bachelorette party might be more suitable.
2. Guest List: Consider the people you would like to include in the celebration. If you have a close-knit group of friends or a specific set of bridesmaids who are instrumental in your life, a bachelorette party could provide an opportunity to bond and enjoy a more intimate gathering. If you want to involve a broader range of female friends, family members, or even colleagues, a bridal shower may be a better choice.
3. Atmosphere and Activities: Reflect on the type of atmosphere and activities that appeal to you. If you prefer a relaxed and intimate setting, perhaps with a sit-down meal or afternoon tea, where you can engage in conversations and enjoy games focused on your journey to marriage, a bridal shower might be ideal. If you envision a livelier and more adventurous celebration, such as a night out on the town, a spa day, or a destination weekend, a bachelorette party could be more suited to your preferences.
4. Time and Logistics: Consider the practical aspects, such as timing and logistics. Determine how much time and resources you and your friends are willing and able to dedicate to the event. If you have limited time or are planning a destination wedding, a bachelorette party may be more manageable. If you have more time and want to include a broader group of people, a bridal shower can be a flexible and inclusive option.
5. Communication with Loved Ones: Discuss your thoughts and preferences with your bridesmaids, maid of honor, and close friends or family members who may be involved in planning or hosting the event. Their insights and input can help you make a decision that aligns with your desires while considering their abilities and availability.

Remember, there is no right or wrong choice. It’s about selecting the celebration that resonates most with your personality, preferences, and the dynamics of your relationships. You can also consider combining elements of both celebrations or having separate events if that aligns with your vision and circumstances.

Having both a bridal shower and bachelorette

If you desire to have both a bridal shower and a bachelorette party, it is absolutely possible to plan and incorporate both celebrations into your pre-wedding festivities.

I would offer to host one yourself or at least have two different people be the host of each one. It is a big task to organize one event, let alone two.

Here’s how you can make it work:

1. Communicate your wishes: Discuss your desire to have both celebrations with your bridesmaids, maid of honor, and close friends or family members involved in the planning process. Let them know that you would like to have both a bridal shower and a bachelorette party and explain your reasons for wanting both events.
2. Determine the timing: Decide on the timing of each event. You can choose to have the bridal shower a few weeks or months before the wedding to allow for the traditional gift-giving and well wishes. The bachelorette party can take place closer to the wedding, such as a week or a few days before, to create a fun and memorable experience leading up to the big day.
3. Delegate responsibilities: Assign specific responsibilities and tasks to different individuals involved in the planning process. This could include designating one person or group to organize the bridal shower and another person or group to handle the bachelorette party arrangements. Clearly communicate expectations, budget considerations, and any preferences you have for each event.
4. Consider combining elements: While the two events have distinct purposes and atmospheres, you can still find ways to incorporate elements that overlap. For example, you could have some light-hearted games or activities at the bridal shower to add an element of fun, or you could have a moment during the bachelorette party where guests can offer advice or well wishes to you.
5. Manage guest lists: Determine the guest lists for each event based on the purpose and dynamics of the celebrations. The bridal shower guest list can include a broader range of female friends and family members, while the bachelorette party guest list can consist of your closest friends and bridesmaids. However, there may be some overlap in the guest lists, so ensure proper communication to avoid any confusion.
6. Plan logistics and budgets accordingly: Coordinate with the respective organizers to plan the logistics and budgets for each event separately. This will help ensure that the arrangements and finances are appropriately managed for each celebration.

Remember, the key is open communication and collaboration with those involved in the planning process. By expressing your desire for both a bridal shower and a bachelorette party and working together to make it happen, you can have the best of both worlds and create memorable experiences leading up to your wedding day.

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Sage green and terracotta, I just love this color combo! It seems yous do too!

So I get asked a lot to break down how I would style a certain color palette or color scheme.

I totally get it, finding the right colors to use and how to use them for a wedding can be hard.

I always held off on these sorts of blogs as annoying as it is to hear it really depends on so many factors.

I will style every wedding with this color scheme completely differently. But there would be some overall similarities.

So, here goes! Hopefully, this blog can answer this question and give you ideas and guides on styling a terracotta and sage green wedding.

Just looking for terracotta wedding color palettes?

Sage Green and Terracotta color palette

Depending on your venue, wedding season, and overall style you can add other colors to adapt the look.

Most metals will work for an accent color, you can even use black for a modern feel.

The more white you use in your overall design the fresher and brighter the look will be.

You could use a darker sage green as your base and create a moody wedding color palette.

Ideas for styling a terracotta and sage green wedding

Stationery Ideas for a Sage green and terracotta wedding

If you are designing and creating your own wedding stationery then there can be a lot to consider.

• Firstly pick 2/3 fonts that you will use throughout the stationery.
• You need to choose the paper texture and colors
• The overall feel and look you want to create, this will be the first glimpse of your wedding
• A monogram or image can be a nice way to brand the stationery and day

You can see in this design board I went for a modern feel with a slight Scandi, boho vibe. I have this template set for sale in my Etsy store if this is your style.

Here are some more different ideas for terracotta and sage green wedding stationery.

Sage Green and terracotta Wedding Invites

Terracotta and Sage Green Wedding Flowers

Dried flowers lend themselves really well to this color palette. Using pampas and other dried grasses for the whites.

Greenery to add in the sage. You can then get some gorgeous terracotta-colored roses in fresh or silk.

Here are some ideas for different flowers you will need to consider for your wedding day

Bridal and bridesmaid bouquets

Centerpieces & large Installations

Table Styling for a terracotta and sage green wedding

For the design above, I would go for linen tablecloths to add a little natural texture.

I would use a mix of sage green and terracotta cheesecloth table runners.

Terracotta pieces as place names, copper cutlery, and a sage green menu.

You could use sage green tablecloths and white runners for a really fresh look.

Or if you want to make the look a little moodier or richer you could use terracotta tablecloths, velvet would be amazing for an autumn wedding.

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There is just something so romantic and dreamy about organic wildflowers.

Whether you are having an indoor or outdoor wedding and no matter the season the is a way to have a wildflower wedding theme.

So of course the easiest way to have a wildflower theme wedding is to use wild-grown flowers as your wedding flowers and bouquet.

If you want to fully embrace the wildflower wedding theme throughout your wedding design then there are lots of fun unique ways.

Wildflower wedding styles

You can really take the wildflower theme and adapt it to any wedding aesthetic.

• Rustic: Outdoor or barn wedding with lots of natural wood elements and loose wildflowers in jars and milk churns.

• Fine art: using the flower in unique structural designs. keeping everything else minimal and considered.

• Boho: festival vibes, think summer meadow. neutral color palette with lots of bud vase wildflowers.

• Moody: for the colder months go with deeper darker colors and add in some autumn or winter greenery.

Spring and summer wildflower weddings

I think of a spring wedding when I first think of a wildflower design. Maybe as all the flowers are starting to blossom and the colors are finally coming through. It can easily work as well for a summer wedding.

Autumn and winter wildflower weddings

I think people might think this theme can’t work in the winter months, but they would be so wrong! Think moody autumn garden vibes. Use darker colors and seasonal wildflowers.

Wildflower wedding ideas

Wildflower invites

Having wildflowers growing from the bottom of the invites looks so pretty.

There are lots of designers who can hand draw this, and digitally design them.

Depending on your budget you can get some great templates on Etsy to edit and print yourself.

Another option is to have the invites printed on wildflower seeding paper.

You can then go for any design or style and it adds a touch of the wildflower theme. Your guest can then plant the paper and grow their own flowers!

Wildflower bouquets

If you want local wildflowers used in your bouquet then it is important to speak to your florist and make sure that is an option they offer. There are a lot of florists that grow their own or work with local smaller flower farmers so there will definitely be someone near you.

Faux and preserved wildflower bouquets

Faux and preserved flowers have come such a long way in the last few years. You can source all the flowers and make them yourselves as a fun DIY project. There are lots of premade and made to order options on Etsy and elsewhere to choose from that are so stunning and well-made.

You can go for dried flowers which will have a crispier feel and muted colors. Preserved flowers look and feel like fresh flowers. Also, real touch and high quality faux flowers are very realistic these days.

Wildflower Ceremony flower ideas

I think the number one way to have a wildflower wedding ceremony theme is a growing meadow aisle. Low level flowers with no base showing full of dreamy wildflowers. This isn’t cheap though, and if it isn’t in your budget there are other ways to create a similar style for less.

A good way is to have low level centerpiece florals and use them on the aisle also. Another way is lots of vases filled with wildflowers. You can add lanterns so fewer flowers are needed.

If you are wanting something more low key then a nice arch with a wildflower display always looks stunning. Or keep it super simple with just some vases or flower displays on the ceremony table.

Wildflower centerpiece ideas

I think bud vases filled with flowers and taper candles are always a winner! You can do a nice wildflower display with a few candles. Or I am in love with these lanterns with pressed flowers attached, how dreamy!

Wildflower wedding cake ideas

Again I think one cake always comes to mind when I think about wildflower cake ideas! A pressed flower cake is so on trend right now and swoon every time I see one! Or you can keep it simple, all white and some sugar flowers.

Wildflower wedding favors

So giving your guest wildflower seeds in a cute way is definitely a great way to carry on the wildflower theme. You can do candles, biscuits, or many different things with a wildflower touch.

Or make the place names or menus out of plantable paper and then they can take them home and plant their own wildflowers.

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This can be a really overwhelming part of wedding planning for some couples.

I think we are sold on the idea that we have to have all the new shiny wedding trends by the wedding world.

For me though the perfect style for any wedding aesthetic is your own personal style.

The day is about celebrating you both as a couple and I think the design should tell your love story.

So through away those wedding mags, stop pinning away on Pinterest and spend some time asking yourself the question below.

If you commit to really thinking about what I say in this blog I guarantee you will have a clear idea of your wedding style by the end of this blog. Grab your partner, get a pad and pen, and really dig deep!

What does wedding aesthetic mean?

Aesthetic is a bit of a trendy word at the moment. It is used to say something looks good or is pretty.

Really though in wedding styling it just means your style or a particular style. which is routed in the true meaning and use of the word aesthetic. Creating a minimal, timeless, or rustic aesthetic.

How to find your wedding style for perfect aesthetic vibes!

1. Let your venue guide you

If you have picked your venue then this definitely the first place to help you decide your overall wedding style.

Ask yourself what it is you love about your wedding venue, the architecture, decor, and unique features. Also, the rooms you are using, their style, and the colors in the room will all play a huge part in what will work well for your wedding.

You don’t want to be clashing your tablecloth with the curtains!

2. Write how you want you and your guest to feel on the day

I think most couples get lost in looking at images to see how they want their wedding to look. But to truly find your personal style for an aesthetic you will love, you need to get writing!

Write down how you want your day to feel, how you want to feel, and how you want your guest to feel. Do you want a relaxed day or formal, fun, or moody?

3. Look at your home decor

If you have a home together or you’ve been planning your new home then this will be the biggest clue to what you like. If not and you are really struggling then do some research and see what style of home interiors you are drawn to.

Find what colors you’re drawn to, and what the styles are called that you like. Then from there, you can start looking at an event design that is similar.

4. Look at your personal style

Again, as I always say the best wedding styling is your authentic style. Have a look at how you dress, what clothes you like, and what style are you trying to achieve.

I get a lot of couples that say I dress comfy and casually I don’t have a style. Erm, that is a style! You are not going to want a formal black-tie event if that is not you. You are going to want your guests to feel welcome and relaxed, paired back luxury is for you!

5. Write a list of things you love

You may be seeing the theme here. Finding out what you both love and tying them together to then create your design is the perfect aesthetic.

What do you love to do together? Travel, eat, watch movies, and go for walks. What are the most important things in your life? What made you fall in love with each other? What do you love about each other?

6. What are your hobbies

So this one can work well depending on your hobbies. Remember though it is about taking small elements from this and using them to inspire your wedding style.

You love to cycle together so you name your tables after your favorite routes. If you have or plan to travel the world together you add some travel elements. It is about small unique details, not one theme that takes over every element of the wedding.

7. Take inspiration from your travels

Do you have a country you always go to? Or maybe one you both fell in love with. Or just somewhere you love the vibe off.

Think about what it is you, love, how it makes you feel, and why. You can then use these to build your wedding style.

Finding your wedding style

This is a great start to getting to grips with creating your wedding style. Answering these questions will help start to really understand what style and feel you want for your wedding aesthetic.

Once you are done head to my color palette blog to help choose your wedding colors. Or my 5 steps to creating your wedding mood board blog.

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Colour palette for a wedding or event

This one is a biggy! I am bringing you the ultimate guide to creating a color palette for a wedding or event.

Now, this is aimed at those wanting to really dig deep into colors. It goes in-depth, we chat about color theory and phycology and working with colors from a design perspective. Head to my quick 5 step process if you just don’t have time for all the faff! If you are a geek like me then carry on reading for the deep dive!

I also share different palette options and how to use them for events. If you are a bride or groom looking for advice on color palettes or a wedding supplier, or a creative business looking to learn more this is the blog for you!

If you prefer to print/download and read later grab the printable version. Full of extra information and some templates.

I believe having an understanding of color, how they work together and the feeling they can create is a must for any designer. Most creatives in the wedding industry will have elements of design in their work. Cake makers, florists, planners, and of course stylists and designers. This guide will help those wanting to get into event design but also any creative wanting to understand color palettes and how to work with colors.

Colour terminology

So I throw some words around in this blog and it is not imperative you learn them but having an understanding will help you with your color knowledge. Like most, I am still guilty of saying what a lovely shade of blue!

Really shade? That is a tint actually!

This is not something we hear often, never in my case, so don’t get caught up with the terminology but they are useful.

Also, when working with other designers, especially stationers it is good to be able to communicate clearly. Knowing the right terms will help.

• Hue: Pure color, primary colors, or a non-mixed color. Not black, grey, or white.
• Tint: Adding white to the hue. Lightening the color, not brightening even though it may appear so, it is a paler version of the color.
• Tone: Adding grey to the hue. Truetone is only adding grey, no other pigments. A pure mix of white and black. Think muted, moody colors in the wedding world!
• Shade: Adding black to the hue.
• Neutral: Hues that appear to be without color. The main neutrals are black, white, brown, and grey. All other neutrals have a hue undertone but are called neutrals by most.
• Analogous: Sit next to each other on the color wheel.
• Complimentary: opposite colors on the color wheel.
• Split-complimentary: The two colors on either side of the opposite

What is color?

Colour is the term we use to describe every hue, tint, tone, and shade we see.

Colour is relative! An object appears colored because of the way it interacts with light. We perceive color through vision, light, and individual interpretation and understanding.

This is important to remember when working with clients or others in general. If I say to you the color blue, each one of you will picture a different color in your head, a slightly different shade or tint of what we would consider true blue. Even with added description. dusty, pale, dark blue we will all picture a different color.

With the digital world, we can create unimaginable amounts of colors. A lot can’t be recreated in the natural world so easily. That is why it is important to work with a mix of shades, tints, and tones when creating an event color palette.

Ask for pictures, and swatches, and share the colors in different formats for clients so they understand a true reflection of the color palette.

Even in digital form, a color may look different not just to someone else because of perception. Screen lighting and setting will affect the look.

A good example is that dress that went around and how people saw two different color sets! Crazy that we can look at the same colors at the same time but see them differently.

We also feel different when looking at colors, which we will discuss next in color phycology.

Color phycology

Color psychology is the study of how colors affect human emotions and behaviors. Each color has a different meaning and feeling that it is associated with.

Some examples of colors and their meanings are listed below:

• Blue is often thought to be calming and soothing. It can be used to create a sense of trust and security.

• Green is associated with health and nature. It can be used to create a sense of balance and harmony.

• Orange is associated with happiness and vibrancy. It can be used to create a fun and festive atmosphere.

• Red is associated with passion and excitement. It can be used to create a sense of energy and urgency.

Colour Theory

Primary colors & secondary colors. In the traditional sense, Red, blue and yellow are our primary colors and we use these mixed with each other to make our secondary colors and tertiary colors, and all the rest.

Tertiary colors are double colors if you like, blue-green, red-purple, etc.

In the digital world, things get more complicated. We work within RGB and CMYK and the primary colors are cyan, magenta, and yellow. This is because we are working with light and inks for printing.

Without going into too much depth here I just wanted to mention this. It is something to be aware of especially when working with different suppliers. A graphic designer over hand-painted stationer. Also, cake makers will mix their fondant colors in a traditional sense of colors.

It also affects the color wheel and how we see compliment and analogous colors. We discuss more by looking at the traditional and modern color wheels.

Colour Wheel

Traditional and modern color wheels. Digital primary colors are different from traditional colors. Because the colors are used by light rather than mixing of colors like traditionally. It is all beautiful maths but I won’t go into all that here!

I just wanted to explain as the wheel and its contrast and compliments are slightly different.

Traditional color wheel

Red, blue and yellow are the primary colors. Orange, green, and purple are the secondary colors.

The tertiary colors are double colors: red-orange, yellow-orange, yellow-green, blue-green, blue-purple, and red-purple.

The color wheel can be split into warm colors (reds, oranges, and yellows) and cool colors (greens, blues, and purples). Warm colors are associated with fire and energy. Cool colors are often thought of as calming and soothing.

Colors that are opposite each other on the color wheel are called complementary colors. For example, blue and orange are complementary colors. When used together, they can create a striking contrast.

Analogous colors are colors that are next to each other on the color wheel. For example, blue, blue-green, and green are analogous colors.

When used together, they can create a harmonious and soothing effect.

The color wheel can also be divided into four quadrants: primary colors (red, yellow, and blue), secondary colors (orange, green, and purple), tertiary colors (red-orange, yellow-orange, yellow-green, blue-green, blue-purple, and red-purple), and neutrals (black, white, and gray).

Primary colors are the most important colors because they cannot be created by mixing other colors together. They are the building blocks of all other colors in the traditional color wheel.

Modern color wheel

The modern color wheel is slightly different from the traditional color wheel. The primary colors are cyan, magenta, and yellow. These are the colors used by light rather than pigment.

The secondary colors are red, green, and blue. The tertiary colors are double colors: cyan-blue, magenta-red, yellow-green, etc.

As with the traditional color wheel, the modern color wheel can be divided into warm and cool colors. However, because of the difference in primary colors, the division between warm and cool is not as clear-cut as it is in the traditional color wheel.

Colors that are opposite each other on the color wheel are still called complementary colors. However, because the primary colors are different, the complementary colors are also different. For example, cyan and red are complementary colors.

Analogous colors are still colors that are next to each other on the color wheel. However, because the primary colors are different, the analogous colors are also different. For example, blue, blue-green, and green are still analogous colors.

The color wheel can still be divided into four quadrants: primary colors (cyan, magenta, and yellow), secondary colors (red, green, and blue), and tertiary colors (cyan-blue, magenta-red, yellow-green), and neutrals (black, white, and gray).

The main difference between the two wheels is that with the modern color wheel the color combinations increase and with this there is an audience of colors that can be created.

Hues, Tints, shades, and tones

Hue is the name of a color on the color wheel. For example, blue is a hue. The tint is a hue to which white has been added. For example, light blue is a tint of blue. Shade is a hue to which black has been added. For example, navy blue is a shade of blue. The tone is a hue to which both black and white have been added. This makes the color less intense and more muted. For example, pale blue is a tone of blue.

Value is the measure of how light or dark a color is. A color can be made lighter by adding white (this is called a tint) or darker by adding black (this is called a shade).

The value of a color can also be changed by making it more or less intense. This is done by adding a color that is opposite it on the color wheel (this is called a tone). For example, orange can be made more intense by adding red or less intense by adding yellow.

The value of a color is important because it affects how easy it is to see. For example, light colors are easier to see than dark colors.

Saturation is the measure of how pure a color is. A color can be made more saturated by adding another hue that is similar to it on the color wheel or less saturated by adding a neutral (black

Choosing your color palette or color scheme

So I have given so much theory and rules around color! I have done this as I do believe knowledge is power! Having a good understanding of colors and how they work together means you can experiment and be adventurous!

I also believe in throwing out the rule book and being a rebel! As mentioned before color is relative! If you love a palette, or your couple loves it and it works for the space then go for it!

I think having the underlining knowledge though can help give you the confidence to do this and also the skill to make it work and look amazing.

Here I will share popular color schemes and ways of mixing colors together. Again to give ideas and inspiration.

Contrast with colors

Again this is a big subject and we will briefly touch on it here as it is an important factor when creating a color palette. Contrast is how the color stands apart from another color or colors.

High contrast, easily stands out. Low contrast, neither stands out over the other. A too low contract can lead to a flat dull palette, while too high can lead to a harsh overwhelming color scheme.

It is not all about the color choice. You need to consider the tone of the colors, and how much grey is added. If very similar in all colors you will have no contrast. I usually always have at least one contrasting color in my wedding palettes. This may be the accent or maybe be a tint, shade, or tone within the main color scheme.

It is all about balance and depending on the overall feel on how much or little contrast you add. Playing with a mix of analogous and complementary colors and adapting and using a mix of tones, shades, and tints of the colors.

Using a complementary color scheme

This color scheme uses colors that are the opposite of each other on the color wheel. This can create a very bold and striking look for your wedding.

I would recommend using one or two complimentary colors with a base of more neutral tones. To break up the harshness you can use tints, shades, or tones of the complementary or main colors.

Head to my best complimentary color palettes blog for lots of ideas like this one!

Split complementary colour palette

If you want to use a complementary color scheme but feel it may be too harsh then this is a great alternative. You take one main color and then the two colors on either side of its complement. This gives you a softer palette while still having that wow factor.

Head over to my best split complementary color palettes blog for some inspo!

Creating an analogous color palette

Analogous colors are colors that sit next to each other on the color wheel. This can create a very harmonious and calming feel for your wedding.

You can use a mix of all colors within this scheme or pick one or two as your main colors and base the palette around these. Again using tints, shades, or tones of these colors helps break up the colors and stops them from being too ‘matchy matchy’

Using a monochromatic color scheme

All the tones, tints, and shades are within one hue color. This is usually how I work with my wedding palettes for the base and main color. You can add so much depth, interest, and even contrast using just the shades, tints, and tones of one color.

If you are new to working with colors monochromatic is the best place to start. You can then start to add contrasting tints or play with an accent color to see how it affects the overall feel and look.

Then take two colors or a tertiary color and get creative building color schemes with different shades, tints, and tones that fall within the two of them. I like to think of it as both colors merging together slowly and all the mix of tones, shades, and tints that make it up.

A good way to start is to have a play on Canva or if you have an Adobe program. Pick your main color and select the color picker box and move the picker around. Every single color in that box is a shade, tint, or tone of your color. You can see how much variety there is and how you can make a color palette full of depth, interest, and contrast just using a monochromatic color palette.

Neutral colors

For event design palettes neutrals are used slightly differently. The main reason is we are usually working with flowers and nature.

Also, certain colors can work as a neutral for the palette but may not be neutral in the true sense. i.e. certain greens. They are used in a similar way in interior design. It is neutral with a hue undertone.

I like to think of them as having no impact.

They compliment all the other colors so well and in equal measure, that it has no effect. There is no contrast provided. It works as a great base to build on. I usually pick neutral colors based on the venue or area we are setting up. As it not only needs to be neutral to your colors it also needs to work with its surrounding. Done well it can be the perfect merge of the surroundings and the chosen color palette.

My wedding and event color palette process

I follow a similar process for most weddings and events. I break my color palette up into 3 parts. I have my base-neutral color, my main color(s), and the accent color.

Even if working with a mixture of colors I will break my palettes up this way. Remember what we spoke about before, if you have the same tone in all your colors they mold well together and no contrast is created.

So in a way you can still bunch as one color when working with this method. Of course, they are not but they have no real effect on each other and any added colors neutral or accent will have the same effect on them equally.

Base color –

The base color is your neutral color. It will take up 70% to 80% of your design.

It doesn’t have to be white, black, brown, or grey. I do use grey a lot as a base though. There tends to be an overuse of bright white as a base color in weddings, it is usually in its purest form. This creates contrast from the start, which is not wanted for most designs.

Softening the hue slightly or adding a slight undertone can make all the difference to the overall feel. Think taupe, grey-white, and stone colors.

As previously mentioned neutrals don’t need to be pure neutral colors. It is about finding a color that works well with your main colors and accent to achieve the desired feel. You can take a Palette from light and airy to moody and dark with a swap of a base color. You can play with tones, shades, and tints of your chosen palette to manipulate the outcome.

Playing with your neutral against your main color can make the color pop or calm it down and neutralize.

Below are some renders. I have changed only the tablecloth color. This is in the simplest sense to show you the effect of changing or choosing your base neutral. Of course, other elements would change in the design with a real wedding.

With the white and black the colors still pop. They are the colors in their purest form. I personally would use a softer black or white and the white is toned down slightly.

With the grey, you see how the darker red pops while the toned-down reds, the pinks, are more subtle. The copper also has some contrast, more than the lighter red.

With the pink undertone neutral, ideally, I wanted less pink, this is white with a really light red undertone. Hard to achieve with this render. Again, the darker reds pop, and the toned-down lighter reds are softer on the eye.

Also, look at each picture and think about the feeling you have. The black adds a moody modern vides and with the copper contrast high adds a warm feel. The grey for me really neutralizes the whole feel and makes it feel romantic and soft. The white adds freshness and vibrancy to me. The pink I feel works similar to the grey, with a soft relaxed feel and more understated look.

These are of course digital mock-ups but I hope they help you understand the effect of your base on your main colors and the role it plays to create the overall feel for the day.

Main color

This is where monochromatic comes in. Sometimes I do this with the base also or instead but for the majority of palettes and for simplicity I will talk about it as the main colors only.

As mentioned monochromatic is all the shades, tints, and tones within a hue/color. You can really play with this depending on the color you choose, you can have a vast range. Take Burgundy, which is a mix of red, brown, and a tint of purple. If you work with burgundy as the main color and look at all the shades, tints, and tones then you will see you can range all the way from red to purple.

I also sometimes use a set of 3 analogous colors mixing their shades, tones, and tints so they melt beautifully together. I love to use just the right amount so it is as if you can’t fully tell where one color ends and another begins.

The best way to learn is to set up the picker and have a play. Here I have 4 monochromatic color palettes. No base or accent. I have done pink, blue, red, and purple. I have shown my chosen color and its code and then picked a palette using the color picker on Canva.

Have a look yourself and have a play and see what palettes you can create. Playing with colors is the best way to learn and grow your understanding.

Accent color

This is usually a metal; gold, copper, brass, or silver. It doesn’t have to be though, it can be a color also. I often use black as an accent color and it is a great modern accent that adds some wow while keeping it elegant.

Look at your colors, venue, and style, and think about what will work best. If you have a period venue and going for a timeless design then brass would work perfectly, think vintage brass candle sticks running down the tables. If you wanted it to look a little more modern then swapping to gold and simpler candlestick it would change the feel while still suiting the venue.

Wedding color palette and color schemes

Even though there is a lot of information in this blog it really does only touch the surface of colors and learning how to use them. I have repeated this but the best way is to practice, and try out color palettes. Have fun, experiment, and enjoy the learning. If you have any questions reach out to me.